Just as is the word, “love,” the word, “friend” seems to often be superficial and overused. I have doubted my own sincerity when using so often those two worn out words. But I am a fool. So I forgive myself. Look, I have made no bones about this. With the problems my age seems to … Continue reading
Maybe I’m just a confused old man. Maybe my confusion has lead me to just this side of a Silver Alert. I really don’t know exactly what’s going on within each moment I live these days. But I know some things. It puzzles me, too, why it is that I know what I know. “Why … Continue reading
As we grow older, I suppose, we grow accustomed to our own patterns of life. We choose or not to follow some principled path of promise. If we don’t follow whatever trail we choose, we allow the prevailing winds to carry us to wherever we need to be. Even in the face of promise, winds … Continue reading
I call my higher power, “God.” And, until today, I did not totally trust Him. Or any higher power for that matter. I think there are many of us going through such things. Folks of all ages. It just seems bizarre for someone my age to go through any of this. But, honestly, I kind … Continue reading
I always thought growing old would be easy. You know, you’re walking down a Florida boardwalk somewhere with nothing to do and nothing on your mind, and you trip on a beer can or something. You break a hip and doctors or nurses take care of your every need while you look out the window … Continue reading
I came to a realization of sorts this weekend. Last Thursday, I went with my son and his family to watch the University of North Carolina basketball team practice for their upcoming tournament games in the Charlotte arena. I was amazed at the genuine fun and joy that team’s players and coaches and former players … Continue reading
SPECIAL “BEAT DOOK” EDITION OF THE LUNAR REPORT. FROM NOV. 6, 2009 (The original was written and posted about eight years ago, during football season. Well, this is hoops time! My revisions pretty much only deleted references to that strange oblong leather ball!) It seems I have had a request from a friend of mine, … Continue reading
(This may be a Lunacy, but it’s mostly true!) I’m not much of an “out with old – in with the new” kind of guy. In my older years, I prefer to focus only on what’s new. Well, this New Year’s Eve is different. And I guess it’s my own fault. I did about eight … Continue reading
Christmas is such a wonderful time of joy. Of life. Of promise. Of God given love. But fears and regrets and fears of possible future regrets seem to dominate this joyous season. I see it every day in other folks. And I feel it most days around this time of year. I should be … Continue reading
Thanksgiving is my favorite day of the year. But I will be honest with you. Today I really didn’t much feel like driving the thirty minutes to my son’s house to spend just a few hours with him, his wife, their children and her family. But I did. And the trip validated my thankful list. … Continue reading
